Waiting For Them To Approach You Instead Of Pleasing Them For Attention.

 

-Do you ever feel like being out of topic or out of place in a circle of friends? I guess some people feel this way too. I think one of the reasons for this is having unmatched interest in or vibes, or just they didn't like you or the thing you could offer to them or maybe you're not enough for them, and yes, I feel it and I admit it. It may be the worst part of living with no one to talk to, and here I can tell you my experience on how I go through this part of life.

-Sometimes you're just by yourself; you need to accept the part of life where you'll grow through your own efforts. Before accepting people into your life, make sure that you do the same for yourself and don't overdo things for others because maybe it's not just enough for them. Measure your worth to others; maybe you are not capable of it for them. In short, prioritize yourself first. That's what I do, because when they see that you can stand up by yourself, they will be curious about you, and want to know about you, and want to have that ability of yours.

 -Remember that you can choose a friend; it's important to choose someone to trust and to be with for a way of time. because maybe they can get you in trouble or they are the ones who are going to do the trouble to you. That's why you should choose someone to be with for a period of time. Don't push yourself on other people; things have a reason, so just go with the flow of time. It's better to wait for someone to surrender themselves just to know about you than kneel for their attention. You have worth, and there are a lot of people in this world to choose from, so know your worth!

-One day they're just going to pop up in your life and you didnt almost realize how they're get into your life, thats the real friend. The real friend is the one who can make an adjustment for you and can make real efforts. The one who's always there in the good or bad parts of life with you. Sometimes people come to you to do the same thing to know if you have the same interests and vibes, so normalize if people will just leave. It's a good thing, you know? because they are just being honest and doing it for both of you.

-Remember that quality defeats quantity in terms of having a friend. There is no need to have lots of friends; you just need a friend who can accept you for the good and bad parts of time. In my experience, I rarely have more than five friends in one school year because I surely know if they can be trusted. I don't want to make a mistake when it comes to a friend because I might slip some secrets of mine, and I want them to be kept more than a secret. At last, remember that it's not always them to make an effort and make adjustments. You need to be flexible too, as a friend, to gain their trust and strengthen the bond between you.

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